Working with you
I start with the assumption that there is one thing above all others that I will do throughout your first session with me: listen to you with undivided attention.
How likely is it that all you need is this attentive listening?
It’s fine if that’s the case.
However, when concerns and distress arise I use a counselling logotherapy framework based on the work of Viktor Frankl to lighten the burden of caring and sustain the caregiver.
My approach is adaptable for individual or group sessions, in person (Melbourne, Australia), or online.
The framework’s structure is eight sessions of one hour each for groups. For individuals, I can offer the flexibility of shorter or longer sessions depending on your situation.
Wherever you are in the progression of dementia caregiving, we will work in a way that makes sense for you.
Why is the practice called Third Chair Counselling?
The shape that best symbolises our approach to counselling is the triangle.
Imagine a triangle created by three chairs, one at each corner.
The first is for you, who will talk about your life as a dementia carer.
The second is for our counsellor as they listen and respond.
The third stands for the person with dementia and their humanity: needs, rights, well-being, and best interests.
We are mindful of the third chair so that our words and actions sustain but do not diminish the person they represent.
Establishing a pathway forward.
Are you ready for counselling?
If you’re ready to explore your situation, your thoughts, and your feelings to create a pathway for yourself to cope better, then you are ready for counselling.